Signs A Woman Is Interested In You

Wondering if a woman is interested in you? Look for these signs to know for sure that she likes you.

13 Signs That She’s Interested

It can be difficult to tell if a woman likes you as women tend to wait for men to make the first move. Here are some subconscious signals that she can’t hide.

1. She has open body language

A woman who is interested in you is more likely to face her body towards you when she talks to you. She’ll also have uncrossed arms and an open posture. These are signs that she’s comfortable and receptive to what you have to say.

2. She doesn’t mention other men

If a woman is interested in you, she typically won’t talk much about other men. This is a subconscious signal she’s sending that you’re the one she’s focused on. Chances are she doesn’t even know she’s doing it.

3. She laughs at your jokes

If you crack a bad joke and she laughs her head off, then chances are she’s interested in you. Women are more able to laugh at men they find attractive as they are in a better mood simply by being in your presence.

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4. She mentions she’s single

This is one of the most obvious sign a woman likes you. If she finds a way to tell you that she’s single then you know that she has her eye on you. The more transparent it is, the more she likes you, as a general rule.

5. Her pupils are dilated

When a woman is attracted to you, her pupils will tend to grow in size. This natural response to darkness is also a sign that she’s relaxed and comfortable around you.

6. She makes excuses to talk to you

When a woman likes you she’s going to find excuses to speak to you. This could mean going out of her way to be in the same room with you, reaching out to you for no reason, or finding an excuse to strike up a conversation.

7. She gets close to you

Women use their presence to signal attraction. This means that she’s going to get closer to you than she does to others. This is her way of letting you know she wants to make a move.

8. She glances your way

If a woman is interested in you, she’s bound to be glancing your way more often than normal. This is something all women do even though they’re not aware of it.

9. She texts you first

Women don’t typically send the first text. If she’s willing to take that step, chances are she’s doing her best to get closer to you because she’s interested.

10. She copies your movements

Mirroring is the subconscious drive to copy the body position and movement of a person we’re in contact with. The more interested you are in someone, the more you’re going to be mirroring their movements. Look down at her body. Are you two in a similar position?

11. She blushes

This sign of embarrassment can also be a sign of attraction. Women blush when they feel embarrassed and they’re more likely to feel that way in front of men they’re interested in. The same is true of men.

12. She cares about your opinion

A woman who likes you is going to value your opinion more than others. Does she look to you for an indicator of how to behave in any given situation?

13. She asks personal questions

Women want to know more about the men they like. If she’s interested, chances are she’s going to ask you personal questions. This will help her determine how you would be as a boyfriend.


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  • Thanks a ton. This made me realize the girl I want definitely doesn’t want me. She only does the first two on this list. She acts like she is way above my jokes, but I can’t tell if that’s a façade or not. Either way this is great advice. I’ve known her for years but only now as we are older am I noticing her in this way and I feel like an idiot. Any quick tips?

    • Ask her out anyway. She doesn’t have to tick all the boxes and make all the signs. There’s nothing to lose and you don’t want to regret not making a move later on. Remember that even the slightest chance is still a chance, so just go for it. Good luck!

  • Thanks for your advice.
    I have a question for you. What kind of badboy are girls attracted to? Okay, I’ll give you two situations.
    A: He is very arrogant but he has a soft corner for something. He fights with all the boys. He teases girls on road. Moreover, if he notices anyone is harrasing a girl, he doesn’t protest, he joins them. He is not loyal. He disobey everybody, gets into the jail. Everybody is afraid of him.

    B: He is not like the first one. He is so sweet to everybody. He doesn’t get into any fight only manages to solve it.He is smart, obidient, funny. He is confidence but he doesn’t fight in the streets like a kid. He is mature. He is loyal. He has a soft corner for something too.
    Plzz help me find out. Waiting for your reply… Thanks.

  • Hi Kate,

    Thank you for the tips. I have found your videos and articles very helpful. Too bad you don’t do coaching anymore. I really appreciate your generosity in sharing your insights and improving lives : )

  • Such wise words from one so young Kate! Lol. I’ll look at for these signs, if I’m lucky enough of course!

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  • Hi kate,

    Ot just three month i meet a girl and we meet three times out side and three times in my home and we kissed but what she say to me know she wanna just a friend. I addition she called ne three times a day and every night we chat via social media and she share to me everything about her and her family.
    What i do to out from friend zone ?


    • I know from personal experience how tough it is to be in the friend zone, but it’s not exactly a bad situation to be in. Friendship is a great foundation towards a healthy relationship. You just have to take that leap to take it to the next level. I suggest you watch this video to know more about escaping the friend zone:

  • Kate, I have a question, so this girl she keeps looking at me from a distance, glances quickly at me, even finds a way to see me in crowds, and today she looked me in the eyes smiled and looked away. Do you think these are signs of attraction?

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  • Hi thanks a lot for your advices I wonder can we become freinds and know each other bcs i found you really nice and intelligent and down to earth?

      • Omg I really didn’t expect that you will answer to that I’m really happy if any time you want to add me on insta is Ali_tiger_8 if that happens you can count me as your best and loyal freinds and thanks for the reply

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