How many times have you seen an attractive woman and thought to yourself, oh, she would never talk to me; she’s way too hot? And how many times has this stopped you from approaching her? If this is you, then you can relax because I’ve got your back.
The main idea in dating hot women is to not let a woman’s looks make you feel inferior to her. That is one of the main reasons why hot women appear to be so intimidating , but at the end of the day, hot women are just women who are also looking for love. So let’s jump into some ways that you can better understand hot women and then date them!
Not all women are shallow.
Alright, the first thing you should know about women is that not all of us are shallow! Our culture just suggests that we are. If you don’t look like one of the Hemsworth brothers, don’t worry! Hot women don’t always go for looks first. Sometimes, women are mostly attracted to someone’s sense of humour, kindness, thoughtfulness and/or intelligence. A man’s looks aren’t always a make or break deal for women.
You just need to figure out your strong suit. If you are any of the things that I’ve just described, figure out which one is your best quality, and play that up. So don’t think about reasons why a hot girl might not like you; start focusing on the aspects about yourself that are likeable.
It is psychologically proven that the more we get to know someone, the more we find them attractive. So the more you meet attractive women and let them get to know you without being shielded by your own insecurity, the more they will like you and be receptive to you. Now that you know that not all women are shallow, you should feel more confident in approaching women you find attractive.
Making her feel good makes you look good
A lot of attraction has to do with how you make someone else feel. If you make someone feel good about themselves, they will most likely want to continue being around you. If you are a pessimistic person who always looks for problems in situations, women won’t want to be around you complaining all the time.
BUT if you are optimistic and light hearted about situations that arise, women will be highly attracted to you for being easy going and finding a reason to laugh as opposed to getting mad. These are all part of making people feel good, which makes them want to be around you.
Another big thing about being attractive to people is that if you have a strong sense of self confidence, and you can approach a woman without losing your cool, there is no reason you can’t be dating hot women.
Everyone wants to feel confident and good about themselves, and the more you can recognize it in yourself, the easier it is to bring it out in other people. Women aren’t as complicated as we like to think we are. But we are all very different.
Be creative with your dates
Another thing about dating hot women is that you shouldn’t be afraid to switch things up and level up your dating game. You don’t have to stick to fancy dinners and those kind of go to date ideas. Switch it up by taking her out to lunch on the weekend. Get her out in daylight. You could also do an activity without breaking the bank. Go paddle boarding, kayaking or whatever the two of you are into and can do together in the daytime, as opposed to the night.
The night time date has this connotation with something expected at the end of the date. You prolong wooing a girl and the chase when you don’t expect sex right away. And if you don’t, it will most likely increase the sexual tension between you, which is a bonus, and will show her that you are interested in her for more than her looks.
Women want to be appreciated for who they are not just for what they look like
Women also don’t want to be solely liked for their looks. We want to be appreciated for our personality, brains, our sense of humour and our kindness. We really want someone to acknowledge all of our qualities besides our looks. And you can continue to get to know us through social media and texting.
Let your personality shine through
And the last and final way to date hot women is to have a personality. Women are big suckers for the “funny guy.” In my experience, I’ve come to understand that everyone is pretty damn funny in their own way with the right audience. Show women that you have a sense of humour and do so by not taking yourself too seriously, so don’t be overly concerned with playing it cool. Don’t let your fear of what other people think about you control you. That is your ego talking. Having an overly inflated ego isn’t as important or attractive to women as it is about males’ relationships with other males.
The truth of the matter is that you are really in your own way of dating these hot women. If you lack confidence in yourself to date hot women, then you’re in your own way. So once you get out of your own way, you will begin to attract these types of women, because women are attracted to the confidence person who isn’t afraid to be themselves, but who also has an attractive personality. And always remember that a woman’s looks should not make you feel inferior to her.